For a variety of reasons, modern couples opt to mark their significant anniversaries by giving one another a ring. In some cases, it’s a ring that the man or woman has seen and wanted, in others, the ring takes a more traditional form, such as the eternity ring.
When considering the purchase of an anniversary ring, it’s important to take into account the style of the person you’re buying it for. Do they prefer a single, large stone or a series of smaller stones? Do they have a preference for a particular gemstone? What type of metal are their existing rings, such as their wedding band and engagement ring, made from? Once you’ve thought through these areas, it’s vital to determine which finger the ring will be worn on and try to get a size.
Armed with this information, you can begin your search for a perfect anniversary ring. Bear in mind that some anniversaries are associated with particular gemstones, though that association varies from list to list, commonly the first anniversary is associated with mother of pearl, the fifth with rose quartz, the tenth with crystal, the twentieth with emerald, the thirtieth with pearl, the fortieth with ruby, and so on. By no means should these traditional associations limit your choices, but they might help you decide which direction to go in when choosing your anniversary gift.
Pair the stone you’re after with the metal that matches your partner’s existing rings and you’ve got a good way of narrowing your searches for ‘anniversary ring’ online. Try to work with a jeweller that has good reviews, or has been recommended to you by a friend. Ask the jeweller for a guarantee – and if you’re suspicious when you receive the item, take it to a local, trusted appraiser. Also, be sure you get a clear statement on their return/refund policy – bearing in mind that customised items and bespoke jewellery commissions can rarely be returned.
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